VideoEgg's CMO laments the loss of joy in the world of online marketing and offers suggestions to help create the happiest place online.

"Advertising is based on one thing… happiness. Happiness is the smell of a new car. It's freedom from fear. It's a billboard on the side of the road that screams with reassurance 'whatever you're doing, its ok, you are ok.'" (Don Draper, "Mad Men")

I am trying to find my happy place. We are at a hotel in Portland, two days into a much-needed family vacation.

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First a diversion. I've queued up the first season of "Mad Men." I am a bit late to the show, but now it's time to gorge. I'm on vacation, after all. Maybe it will inspire.

Writing the byline. Would kill for a cigarette. Did people really smoke that much? Too bad we can't make it healthier.

People in the ad biz always talk about advertising as culture creation. Like all good vocationally-based TV series, the creators of "Mad Men" understand the business. And they have created a hero true to the craft. Don Draper has a gift indeed. He understands what moves us. He has a sense for what we need from advertising.

I've thought about online advertising a whole lot over the past couple of years. I've participated in countless panels debating the future of advertising and the importance in remaking it for a social web. The refrain is familiar and, quite frankly, exhausting: "Social media doesn't monetize." "The banner is dead." "Advertising needs to become a conversation." "Marketers need a social media strategy."

All true perhaps, but one thing is missing… joy. Online advertising is no fun. It's no fun for consumers. The banner has a very hard time making us feel anything at all. For all of the excitement around ad innovation in Silicon Valley, fun has not been at the top of the list.

It seems to me that Silicon Valley doesn't really like advertising; it likes efficiency. Efficiency drove the first wave of advertising, and the medium was successfully colonized by direct response dollars. But if we are going to chip away at brand budgets, we are going to have to do a much better job at making ads fun.

When was the last time you enjoyed interacting with an ad online? I loved the Mac vs. PC ad I saw a couple of months back; I've seen some really cool IBM ads recently too. But these are exceptions. For online advertising to reach its fullest potential for brands, it has to make people happy. And it has to be way easier for people to get something out of it.

Next time you plan a campaign, try thinking about three things: the user's happiness, how to extend it and how to use the countless resources the web offers to make this happen.

Happiness
Focus less on the immediate action and more on immediate enjoyment. After all, isn't this is what brand advertising is all about? The biggest single change the internet has brought to brand marketing is user empowerment. In a demand-based world, consumers elect to spend time with commercial messages. Good ads are content or utility, or both. How are you making a prospect enjoy the interaction?

Time
We’ve found that most consumers will spend about 10 seconds with most video ads, but we’ve been able to extend that time by creating more choice in the ad experience. Remember, TV spots are designed for captive environments. Demand-based environments need to pull consumers in quickly and give them control over what they can consume. Push your team to think about how to get users to spend more time with your content. Most importantly, change the metrics. Lose the urge to evaluate everything by the click.

Resourcefulness
I am at the Ace Hotel, and it is making me think about doing more with less. The Ace is a case study in resourceful design. It's not fussy, but is exceptionally thoughtful about its travelers' needs. Next time you are in Portland, visit the hotel or come by for an exceptional cup of coffee. The point is this: Web 2.0 has given advertisers an incredible set of tools to create portable, localized media experiences. Video, rich media, feeds, games, maps, polls -- the tools are available. Push your team to innovate quickly. Find cool ways to syndicate your brand experience, just as the Ace Hotel has done.

Advertising used to be pretty simple. Innovation was less about how we delivered a message and more about the message itself. A lot has changed. Addressability is improving relevance. The network is removing friction and enabling virality. Interactivity changes narrative and creates new open-ended creative opportunities. More accountable compensation models designed for the medium, cost per engagement (CPE) are emerging.

However, for more brands to move into online, or to create a greater presence there, we've got to find ways to make the experience more enjoyable. People love to be entertained. Let's not forget what made brand advertising work in the first place.

Troy Young is chief marketing officer of VideoEgg.