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7 reasons people hate being in meetings with you

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The meeting. That necessary evil. That gathering we love to hate -- yet can't resist scheduling.

There's a reason meetings are so reviled. Most of them suck.

They're poorly organized. They're poorly run. They have no objective. They have no value. People just show up for the sake of showing up. They behave badly.

You're probably in a meeting right now.

7 reasons people hate being in meetings with you

Sadly, you are likely part of they -- the badly behaving, no-value-adding, disorganized, meeting-marauding masses.

Just look around the table. Look at those faces. Those bored, irate, aggravated, disengaged faces. They don't want to be in this conference room with you. They hate being in this conference room with you.

And that's no good. Because if you're in a meeting, there should be a reason. Maybe you're trying to woo a prospective customer. Maybe you're trying to kick off a project. Maybe you're presenting work to a client.

Regardless, if people hate being in meetings with you, your objectives are being thwarted.

Don't be thwarted. The first step in healing is recognizing you've got a problem. And of course, I've got a list to help you recognize why people hate being in meetings with you.

 

Comments

fadrian goeltom
fadrian goeltom October 31, 2012 at 8:03 AM

thankyou for this. this is very useful ... i think theres a bit of a blowhard in me to be honest. at least this article reminded me to stay away from that zone. cheers adam.

Adam Kleinberg
Adam Kleinberg October 24, 2012 at 6:48 PM

Thanks Augie, Diane. They are such a big part of our day—it's worth thinking about the little things to make them more valuable. Cheers.

@adamkleinberg

Augie Schumatti
Augie Schumatti October 24, 2012 at 4:16 PM

I just read this article. If it weren't so damn accurate and applicable to meetings we all try not to have, I wouldn't have posted this comment or registered today. However when you do something this correct, you deserve acknowledgement. Great article!

Diane Osgerchian/duplicate
Diane Osgerchian/duplicate October 24, 2012 at 1:26 PM

Great article! So true and very helpful. Thanks for sharing.